As October and Infant Loss and Awareness Month come to a close, I want to stop and give moms and dads the permission to have more than just one month. The permission to speak their baby’s name out loud, even if it makes other people uncomfortable. The permission to remember their child and cry, even if it’s awkward. Grieve as you need to and don’t be scared or worried about how others react. Your feelings are valid. As a gentle reminder of your sweet baby or babies, I’ve created a few phone and smartwatch backgrounds for you. Save the following images to your phone and/or watch to update your background and keep a gentle reminder of your baby always nearby.